Many pastors claim that it is their duty to authorize marriages suggesting that without them you cannot be married. But what does the Holy Bible say on the issue?
The first man was married without a pastor.
Genesis 2:21-25
21
And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept:
and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;22
And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a
woman,
and brought her unto the man.
23
And Adam
said, This
is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be
called Woman,
because she was taken out of Man.
24
Therefore shall a
man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave
unto his wife: and they
shall be one flesh.
25
And they were both naked, the
man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
Question: Was Adam married? Did Adam need a state license? Did Adam need the authorization of some man?
Genesis 11:29
And Abram and Nahor took them wives: the name of Abram’s wife was Sarai;
and the name of Nahor’s wife, Milcah, the daughter of Haran, the father of
Milcah, and the father of Iscah.
Was Abraham married or not? Did Abraham need a pastor to authorize his marriage?
Genesis 24:67
And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent, and took Rebekah, and she
became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s
death.
Was Isaac married? Did Isaac need a pastor to authorize his marriage?
Genesis 25:1
Then again Abraham took a wife, and her name was Keturah.
It is plain to see that God recognizes a couple as married when they “cleave unto” each other.
Genesis 2:23-24
23
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she
shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother,
and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
3
The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it
lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
4
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that
he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
5
And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and
mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
6
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What
therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
7
They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a
writing of divorcement, and to put her away?
8
He saith
unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away
your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
9
And
I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication,
and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is
put away doth commit adultery.
Additionally there is no scripture saying that marriage is only marriage when authorized by some pastor. Marriage licenses submits your marriage to the jurisdiction of the state, albeit unconstitutionally. See 5 Reasons Why Christians Should Not Obtain a State Marriage License .
Update: Please do not ask me where to find pastors that will conduct marriages without state involvement. The pastor does not have the authority to marry people.
August 4, 2007 at 4:26 am
You’re right. Nothing in scripture says that ANY man has the authority to pronounce two people husband and wife (Yahweh joins together, not man) or that two people must have a legal marriage license or that a couple’s marriage is not valid without all of these things. Yet, religious folk have been led astray on this subject and will not take the time to read, pray and be lead in truth regarding marriage. Then we wonder why most marriages don’t last these days!
Anyway, nice blog…thanks for the read!
~Free
January 29, 2008 at 2:38 am
I completely agree. Because we have given control to the government as a nation Christ noted give to Ceasar what is his. I don’t believe he was only talking about money. I believe it refers to the wider view of humanity in all things. In this case we’d be subject to the law first, then God, by his own words.
Something cute in regards to this. In the movie Santa Claus is Coming to Town no town would accept Kris Kringle and his lady to marry them, so they married in the forest under the Lord’s blessing. This struck me just this year as I watched at 42 years old with my son. A child’s Christmas film acknowledges “Santa Claus” married Mrs. Claus in the eyes of God ’cause no town would. He has no marriage license either
lol
Great article. I’ve been researching others who have written similar articles. Great support through scripture. Thank you.
Patience Phillips
February 23, 2008 at 9:52 pm
Great article…i’ve been following this issue for years and have always felt and still do believe that if we follow the Torah, we cannot go wrong. It’s said to say that the “reformation” and earlier church’s brought so many pagen rituals into the Yahweh’s Santuary.
Is there a published list of Pastors who do perform marriage’s without licenses’s and what is your thought on even having a ceremony?
June 9, 2008 at 1:51 am
How do you go about finding a Pastor that will marry you without a State License???
We have requested this at our HOME CHURCH and were told no.
Thank You for any help in this matter.
Diane
June 9, 2008 at 5:20 pm
Diane,
There’s no need to have a “pastor” authorize your marriage. Marriage is a covenant between a man and his wife in the sight of God. Genesis 2:24, ” Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
July 7, 2008 at 5:15 am
Sirs,
My fiance and I are elderly, and both have grown families. We wish to be married by a pastor, even though we know that God would honor our vows of marriage should we make them to each other. We are in New York State, and would like to be directed to a pastor not too far from New York, who would marry us. Thank you for your help. Eleanor
July 7, 2008 at 3:59 pm
Eleanor,
Please read my previous comments. Thanks.